Friday, January 7, 2011

A New Day!!

Well I am happy to report we decided to work it out (me and my hubby).  So I am sooo sooo happy he finally came to his senses.  But in the future I think I am going to try not to be so hard on him, because I gotta realize he isn't like me no matter how hard I try to make him be like me.  He does try, but in his own way.  I am so greatful for a friend helping me with this and helping me see in a different way.  I talked to lots of people about this and everyone gave me different thinks to think about but one person really helped me see something I didn't even think about.  I thank everyone that responded with help to my blog post the night before last.  It meant so much of you girls, that you cared so much.  I love my hubby so much and decided to try to talk to him calmly last night without trying to cry.  But I am sensitive and did end up crying a bit, because it was such an emotional thing for me.  He didn't respond right away, but then I left him with the thoughts and he came to me about 30 minutes later and we had a great talk and he tried to see my way and I listened to his reasoning as well.  I am sooo sooo happy we worked things out because I didn't want to leave him and regret not have trying my hardest to really work things out.  I believe in working til something gets fixed, he isn't that way, but at least he tried. : )

So I am going to look at things today as a new start completely.  New way of thinking, new way of eating, new way of enjoying life. :)


  1. That's great news! :) It's always good when things can be worked out. As long as both sides are willing, just about anything can be worked out.

  2. I am glad you have worked things out....I sure hope things get better for you both. Have a happy weekend.

  3. Lindsay...that is wonderful news about you and your hubby!! Good for you for finsing that new perspective of seeing things! Believe in yourself and know in your heart that if you want something badly enough, you will go over under and through to make it happen and you will be willing to do whatever it takes to make it a reality!
    We all believe in you!!

  4. Yep, Marriage is a lot of work, giving and taking, working things out together. Talking clears up a lot of issues, and it's one of the hardest things to really work on together. Small talk is the easiest. I'm glad you both could hear each other, and have come to a resolution. Keep the communication open as much as you can, and everything will be okay.